Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Improve your life learning a sexy dance

Why should I dance?


Let me give you a few reasons why you should learn a sexy dance to improve your mood and general wellbeing. I am sure that you will agree with me and very soon you will be on your way to“cha-cha” yourself into a happier and more confident person.

1) Anyone can dance regardless of age and physical ability. My grandmother, aged 80 is the Queen of the parties; no one can stop her dancing all night long.

2) Dance is one of the most gentle and fun ways to exercise. It stretches and tones the whole body without building bulky muscles.

3) Dancing is a type of aerobic exercise because it increases your heart rate.

4) You do not need any special equipment to get you started. All you need is the willingness to dance and have fun.

5) You can dance alone at home, with a partner or with friends or on stage. You can do it at any time and to any rhythm, choose the rhythm that better suits your abilities and personality.

6) When you are dancing, you learn to have control over your body; therefore you become more confident about your body movements.

7) Dancing improves the quality of your movements.

8) Dancing forces you to breathe correctly.

9) Dancing is good for your skin. Do you remember the last time you danced? Did you become beetroot red? Well, that is good for your skin. It means that your body is sending more blood to your skin surface in order to cool you down so oxygen multiplies to fill the smallest capillaries of your skin.

10) When you start dancing regularly, you will be conditioning your body and at the same time discovering you have more energy and vitality.

11) Dancing releases a hormone in your body called noradrenalina which gives you a natural high that makes you more alert and increases your sense of wellbeing.

12) Dancing decreases your feeling of hunger. Not only can you not eat while you are dancing but the noradrenalina released by your body acts like a natural appetite suppressant.

13) Dancing raises beta-endorphin levels in the body, which help you to relax and sleep better. Therefore, dancing provides mental relaxation.

14) Most types of dance strengthen the stomach muscles giving you a leaner figure and improving your body posture.

15) Dancing is a type of exercise that is always building up in difficulty. You start with some basic steps and you can try more complicated ones as your muscles strengthen.

16) Dancing helps to clean your body through sweat. Sweat also helps lubricate your skin, a very valuable function as a person ages and the skin becomes drier.

17) Regular dancing is synonym with cardiovascular fitness.

18) Regular dancing increases the mineral content in your bones making problems such as osteoporosis less likely.

19) Regular dancing makes joints more flexible.

20) Dancing burns up stored fat.



Do you need any more reasons to bring out your dancing shoes? Actually, for some dances like belly dancing you don’t even need shoes!
 
 
Learn here step by step how to dance sexy:
 
 
 
Some sexy dances that you can try regardless of your fitness level
 
 

Monday, October 24, 2011

How to be brilliantly disruptive: Be disruptive, be yourself do not play by other's rules... Make your own.

To be brilliantly disruptive, make your own rules, the rules of the game.

  • Say NO. If you do not want to do something do not accept just to please others. Put yourself first. This by no means is to be selfish. You are just asserting yourself. If you dread going to Christmas dinner at your mother's in law every year, this year just say NO. I am not going and have your own Christmas dinner. Your husband might be upset at the start but in the long term you will have gained his respect for being able to stand up for yourself.

  • Trust yourself. Trust your feelings.

  • Do not fade into the shadows, make yourself noticeable and formidable. If people see that you cannot be intimidated... they will not try to intimidate you.

  • Feel the right to be yourself, to take what you want, to want what you always dreamt. 
  • Be Beautiful, Be Bold, Be You, Trendy Plus Size Women's Fashion at Torrid.com Wear vivid colours: red instead of pink, blue instead of turquoise, yellow instead of mustard.   Vivid colours convey strength as opposed to "camouflage" and pastel colours which send a message of uncertainty on the wearer's part

  • Enhance your strengths, stand tall, be proud of who you are. 

  • Build strength and authority into your voice talking louder to make sure you are heard.  Use declarations and statements instead of questions.  Speak in declarations and others will take you seriously because they know that you mean what you say. 

  • Do not limit your desires, instead find a way of valuing them.

  • Learn the distinction between the things in your power and those things that are not in your power.  There is no point on setting your heart on those things where you do not have any power (like a lovers attitude towards you or your health) Concentrate on those things that you can control. 

  • Ask for Everething because nothing less is worth having!  If you don't ask for things you will never get them.  People are drawn to big ideas and adventures, go for big things!

For more tips on how to improve your self esteem check my article on  How to be brilliantly disruptive on HubPages.


    Sunday, September 25, 2011

    Celebrate your curves!



    Like most women I have been haunted by my body most of my life.  It is only in the past few years that I have learned to love and accept myself the way I am.  It has been a long journey and to be honest every now and again I have a setback and try a new diet or try to lose a few inches here and there.  Thankfully, I always come back to my senses and end up accepting who I am and liking the way I look. 



    I think that looking good is not about having a certain body shape, but being happy with yourself.  I know this is easier said than done and that is why I have created this site to help you look good, to help you make the right choices when choosing an outfit, but also to help all those women who have a low self-esteem because they are not happy with the way they look. 


    Dressing well can boost your self-esteem.  Looking good can send a completely different image of yourself.